First, let's remember that my babies usually come late. The due date was May 16, so I wasn't expecting to go into labor until the 20th or so. My last day teaching at the school was Friday May 6. After that baton was passed, my body seemed to slip into exhaustion and prep for labor. I rested for the next three days.
On Tuesday morning Ephraim went to my appointment with me. We saw Dr. Aguilera from Mexico who told me el trabajo could start en cualquier momento. In other words, anytime.
That afternoon we stocked up, packed up, and rested up. In the evening we put the kids to be, and alerted Damien next door to be "on call" just in case. I got comfortable, watched some Spiderman 3, and went to bed around 11. All night I had contractions every 8 minutes. Not sharp ones usually. Just steady. I got out the iPod stopwatch and hit "Lap" for every one. It wasn't a very good night. Doze... feel it mounting... click "Lap"... breathe... relax... doze...tightening... "Lap"... breathe, etc. They weren't getting any closer, and I wasn't terribly uncomfortable, so I let Ephraim sleep. I figured once I had the baby I could sleep all day in the hospital, but he would have to single parent the other three kids all day and night. He needed the rest.
I was kind of lonely during that long night. Fortunately I heard that familiar coughing and moist expectorant sound coming from the next room. Sure enough Isaac had gotten sick all over himself and his blankets. I showered him, changed the blankets, and settled him in bed. This happened two more times, so the time passed rather quickly with this distraction from my discomfort. And Isaac and I had a really nice talk about our family and his role as a big brother. But I don't know if he remembers any of it.
Around 5:15 am, I heard some roosters and thought it was about time to get the day started. Ephraim called the Webbs, a senior missionary couple who volunteered to help with the kids. Once I started moving around labor became more intense. When the Webbs came, we scooted off to the hospital, and after a brief but brutal labor he was born at 7:25 am. All white and creamy and puffy and warm. I was just amazed that I was done! That it was over. That I was myself again. And that I had a new baby to get to know.
He has fine features and a straight nose. Not the ski-jump nose the other kids had. Dark, fuzzy hair like newborn Ella and Isaac. And light hazel eyes. For now.
Now the name. Linus has been on our list since Ella. So were Owen and Isaac. We just liked it and couldn't think of any bad associations. Linus Pauling was a Nobel Prize winner and OSU graduate. Linus from Oceans 11 is a little insecure and a target for jokes, but he can swipe a Faberge egg, no prob, so that's pretty amazing. And Linus from Peanuts is by far the wisest and most sincere character despite his affinity for a blanket and thumb.
Ta'iala is Samoan for guide or leader. Literally, ta'i is to lead, and ala is the way. It's also the name of our school that I've been dedicated to for the whole pregnancy.
We're all doing fine. Adjusting. (Okay in reality, we're exhausted and hanging in there.) But we're also thrilled to have this sweet little one in our home.
Now the name. Linus has been on our list since Ella. So were Owen and Isaac. We just liked it and couldn't think of any bad associations. Linus Pauling was a Nobel Prize winner and OSU graduate. Linus from Oceans 11 is a little insecure and a target for jokes, but he can swipe a Faberge egg, no prob, so that's pretty amazing. And Linus from Peanuts is by far the wisest and most sincere character despite his affinity for a blanket and thumb.
Ta'iala is Samoan for guide or leader. Literally, ta'i is to lead, and ala is the way. It's also the name of our school that I've been dedicated to for the whole pregnancy.
We're all doing fine. Adjusting. (Okay in reality, we're exhausted and hanging in there.) But we're also thrilled to have this sweet little one in our home.










6 comments:
Oh. my. gosh. Melinda. Who are you? Who raised you? I think you've aced childbirth! Congratulations on all sorts of levels! What a beautiful boy... enjoy.
Congratulations to you all! You're awesome; teaching first year, having a baby, clearing up a sick kid while you're in labour and then looking super cool afterwards. How do you do it? Much love from Kiwiland xxxx
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That's so funny! I always make my husband take me for an Oreo milkshake from Carl's Jr on the way home from giving birth. Glad to see that will still be an option when we move to American Samoa!
Love the photo "el trabajo", especially compared with the Oreo milkshake one. Labor is the worst, but once it's over, it's over! :) So happy you got to have an early one after all those late ones. Linus' birth story sounds a lot like my Lucas' one, minus the baby throwing up all night, and Lucas didn't come till almost noon. But my doctor did say "anytime" and I did start contractions the next morning, early. Cool! I wish we were coming to Utah this summer so we could meet him!
Melinda, congratulations! And I can't believe what a small world. The Webbs are the parents of my good friend and neighbor, Brooke. When they got their call, I told Brooke she should send her parents a link to your blog so they could get a taste of what to expect in AS. And now they're living it with you. Fun!
What an awesome story, birth and name. I want that milk shake.... Congrats to you and you family for another little one.
Miss and love you!
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